Second Thoughts - Beating the Buyer’s Remorse
Thursday, September 3rd, 2009In the current buyer’s market, there’s enough inventory to look at and ample time to negotiate. Buyer’s remorse often pops up regardless of what the real-estate market is like, especially for first-time buyers.
What if you acted too quickly and a better house comes on the market next week? What if you paid too much for the house? What if you can’t make your house payments? Doubts creep in, making you uncertain if you want to proceed with the purchase. Unless there’s a true reason for concern, your state of mind might simply be a case of Home Buyer’s Remorse.
Take these steps to beat the buyer’s remorse before it sets in.
Do a detailed research
It’s essential for buyers to know what they want - both in terms of housing needs and the neighborhood. The more research you do up front, the less likely you are to make a mistake. Look around and learn how far your real estate dollar would stretch. It is also important to be aware of the long-term trends in your area.
Get mortgage pre-approval
Can I afford the monthly payment? This is a common fear most buyers have. Get pre-approved for a mortgage before house hunting. Once a professional lender has “done the math,” you can be more confident that you can afford the house.
Discuss it with family and friends
If fears start to creep up after the paperwork is finalized, enlist the ears of friends, parents or peers who can reinforce the decision to buy. An agent can also help out by reminding you why the home was originally a favorite. And reassuring you that a good price was secured for the property.
Don’t dwell on it
You made an educated, thoughtful decision when you signed the paperwork. There’s not much you can legally do to get out of it if you change your mind after the contract is finalized. Don’t dwell on what might have been.
Avoid checking out comparable homes
After you have finalized a home, stop looking at other houses unless you feel the contract has a good chance of falling apart.
Recognize that home buyer’s remorse is a common phenomenon. Understanding why buyer’s remorse occurs helps you prepare for it ahead of time and work through it quickly if it occurs.

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